Great input - thanks! I am doing great today, have been able to focus on my work better than I have previously. Wife called today from paralegal, needing some info. She's definitely going through with it and having no second thoughts. Didn't bother me too much as I have accepted that the divorce is imminent. Still exercising daily, eating right, and GAL.
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)