Currently you can't believe any of what he says and only 1/2 of what he does. No need to ask him questions because you won't get a straight answer and more likely it will be something you don't want to hear. Focus on being the best Sixkids and Mom that only a fool would leave.
I'm glad you are recognizing that you weren't meeting his emotional needs and that OW is fulfilling them now. I'm also glad that you are going to stop begging him to try and work it out. Any relationship talk right now is futile and is making things worse.
Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
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