Hi Keefa, I'm no expert or vet. Just wanted to say sorry you're here in this terrible club. About the hair loss/periods - there may be many causes, but one most likely one is: stress. Whatever she is doing is causing great stress - guilt and secrecy do that to a person. It can cause other health problems too. If she's had IVF then she's probably been bombarded with hormones - another terrible thing.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?