I am a fixer, I think I am right, and therefore, work at my speed!
Life, and relationships, work as a dance. I keep wanting to do the jig, my wants to just listen to the music right now.
She'll hopefully get on the dancefloor soon. I have to learn that it's ok to dance by myself.
Thinking of making a standing offer to go out for a coffee with her soon. No date, no planning, just a standing offer. A few minutes away from the kids, so she can talk about her day with me. If I was in her shoes, that might be a good first step.
I'm going to wait until I see some of the pain fade. Maybe I'll let her know on Friday or this weekend.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)