npmyst,

I am a fixer, I think I am right, and therefore, work at my speed!

Life, and relationships, work as a dance. I keep wanting to do the jig, my wants to just listen to the music right now.

She'll hopefully get on the dancefloor soon. I have to learn that it's ok to dance by myself.

Thinking of making a standing offer to go out for a coffee with her soon. No date, no planning, just a standing offer. A few minutes away from the kids, so she can talk about her day with me. If I was in her shoes, that might be a good first step.

I'm going to wait until I see some of the pain fade. Maybe I'll let her know on Friday or this weekend.


M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)