got the ILYBNILWY on 8/18/15. W went away the next weekend and started her full blown romantic affair.
I uncovered the truth 11/6/15 and blew the lid off it. W apologized and we began working on saving the M in earnest.
Things have been very good for the last two months. We attend MC weekly and I attend IC as well in order to deal with some of the feelings I've had after discovering the A.
We are communicating better than we have in a long time and are actively ML on a regular basis.
I've made so many changes to my own life and I continue to do those things. I've done a good job of setting boundaries with W and they seem to be effective.
I guess I'm just looking for advice and support on how to better deal with the piecing part of the recovery process.
I won't go through this again, so I want to do my best to make sure that I'm doing all I can do to make our new M a great one.
I know this board doesn't get a lot of traffic, either, but hopefully someone has some suggestions for me.
