Just a quick update

still on my No contact route. Quick one two word responses when W texts about something regarding kids. No verbal talks.

Me and kids had a good few days together. They really are so intelligent and a true blessing. Yes they can be a handful and for some reason dont hear things i say until the third time! But I actually am so grounded because of them. Just found myself laughing hard with them at dinner last night. We went to a mexican restaurant and they were asking me how to say everything and anything in spanish. Then they started pointing out words and asking what they mean so I just started making stuff up. they were dying laughing.

Going to take them to a campground when we are back together this weekend. We go there a lot and used to as a family but during the in house separation, it was really me and the kids having a blast there together so we will keep going.

Have a couple days to catch on house cleaning, and look into doing some things for myself. I have a nice list to take care of.

I know a lot of people here talk about facebook and how it is tough to have, well i never had one before. So i decided to sign up. I of course immediately got W as a suggestion and deleted that one! LOL. I am enjoying the catch up with people i havent thought about in a while. fairly interesting.

Did think about W a bit this morning, but I was able to redirect thoughts fairly quickly.

Anyway all for now.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15