We already discussed what it would take to come home. I won't rugsweep and allow her right back in. NC, IC, and her living alone for a few months without the om. Complete transparency.
So since I last updated I Talked to her again and realize she is just cake eating. Saying enough to keep me hanging on while still involved with the other guy. So at the end of our conversation I told her I was going to be giving her papers tomorrow for a divorce. I have to draw the line and I told her I will not be married to a woman with a bf.
She was suppose to sign them and have them back Monday. Well Monday came and now she wants to have someone look at them. I sent her a text Monday night asking her to look them over again and bring them today. I said you have moved on allow me to do the same. So we will see if she brings them tonight.
She can never come out and say "it's over". It's always things to keep me hanging. I think the papers surprised her and now she is delaying signing them. She doesn't want to lose her option. Maybe I'm wrong