First time poster-needs advice

[rich4j]

Hi
I am new here also and i feel for you. My story is a bit different but its still one of losing my loved one, fear and anger

What [censored] is you can't control what he does, thinks and his actions. I am only a few days into this (DB) and it is hard. I want to text her when she isn't around and hope for that magic text or call or discussion that she is confused and wants to work on things.

But I would only try to recommend as a newbie that you read the stories and posts here as I have been doing myself now for the past few weeks and try to stay strong. Do other things, love your family and maybe one day he wakes up and understands the vow he made and that the grass isn't greener

Its' easy to run and flee ....what is harder and more work is fully working on a marriage