I think you're doing well. I'm happy for you. We can all give you advice but nobody here, or anywhere, knows you and your specific situation better than you, and WW, do. If something works for you then do that.
Sometimes we BS's over-180 the thing. We detach but forget that the reason we were here in the first place was to SAVE the marriage. The WS comes out of their fog and reaches out to us to work on the R and we're too detached. Nope, not interested. That doesn't help anything. The point of doing the DB'ing is to B the D. To get the walkaway or wayward spouse to come back to the table, choose the marriage, and want to work to save the marriage. In other words, that's when the DB'ing has worked and now you go into marriage building mode. That's a different website. ;-)
You're doing great and you got the desired results from DB'ing. Don't over-DB or you'll damage these fledgling new developments. This much be nurtured. Take is slow but with a committed desire from both of you to stay together, work together, heal, and move forward.
