MB - Your H is in replay. This will take a while. There will be no R with OW when this ends, unless he does something stupid, like marries her. Even then - it won't last.
OW is the opposite of you...she's the downgrade. She's equal or below where he is right now as far as character goes. H is not himself - he is the worst version of himself at the moment.
So, when he finally regains his mind, can you think of any reason he would want to stay with someone like that? No. That is why these R fail. Your H was never meant to be with her. He'll wake up. He won't want her in his life. She will be nothing more than an embarrassment, a reminder of the worst time in his life.
Have you read the story about the lighthouse? That is your goal.
