Another day...hopefully this will start to get easier soon? I'm over a year into this..what am I doing wrong. I was reading through another thread and found some advice posted that said beware of "friends" who have had EM affairs as they will try to convince your H/W it's OK...or pull them in. I fear that is what is happening in my situation. My H's friend has been divorced for a few years (due to him having an affair) and now he is pulling my H into that lifestyle. My H has always been a follower and this friend is definitely a leader. I know nothing I say to him will mean anything, but how can he not see that is what is happening?
M: Early 40s H: late 30s 2 kids under 10 M: 15 yrs BD: 7/14 S: 10/14
