Hey Free,

I see your wanting to blow up the affair. Just remember your goals, You need to not forget to focus on yourself. If its not this guy it will be another. By exposing the affair you may get time on your side till the next OM. I am sure you will find that on this site exposing the affair is generally not recommended because the affair is not the problem, it your W, and until she changes nothing will change. You have no control over when she changes, it up to her. So the best thing to do is work on making you the best man you can be.

Wanted to say thank for your support on my thread.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016