Hi Sandi.
Examples of loss would be primarily financial. I pay 90% of the monthly bills. W saves and pays for the big ticket items. Neither of us could afford our home without the others income. My L looked at the financials and agreed.
I do not mean to one up anyone here by saying W is colder than everyone else's W. Im sure that there are crazier W's than her, but not by much.
What are your thoughts on blowing up the A by snooping?


Me-40's
W- 40's
Married 22, Together 29
BD#1- 6/15 W needs space
BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16
Still both home, but not for long