Okay, that explains why they needed the info from your h for his life insurance through the bank.
When people hear what we are going through, the first thing out of their mouth is "move on". They do not understand that MLC separation/divorce is very different from a normal one. Until they walk a mile in your shoes, they will not understand. So, when people say "move on", allow the comment to roll off your back and continue doing what you think is best for you in your situation.
Trust me, you will know when you've had enough.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
