When they are in MLC and have an affair, that's the "replay" stage which is about halfway through the MLC journey. With that being said, when he stopped talking to her and turned back to me does that mean that he started coming out of the replay stage to depression, but then decided to go back in? If so, then he could be about halfway through with his journey.

I have read a LOT about MLC and the journey that they take. I just wrestle with the thoughts that if SHE is there with him through his MLC and I ignore him and stay away, then when he comes out of it, she will be the one that he remembers being there for him so he will stay with her because he sees her as loyal to him. My thinking might be right, but that sounds logical to me.

M:45 H:48
M:11
No kids
BD:Sept'15
EA:Confirmed 1wk later
PA: Oct'15
12 '15 2 wk R
Just kidding, H wants NC
12 '15 H back w/OW
4 '15 R &still working on it