MB, I know what you mean about wanting to give him a hug. I feel the same way when I hear W say she's feeling paranoid, not safe, and is having anxiety attacks. My friends try to remind me that she has brought this on herself, and that I should have no pity or concern. But they are not in our relationships. They don't know how much we love these crazy people. It's easy to say we should keep the focus on ourselves, not on our wayward spouses, and definitely not on the 0W. But it's much harder to put into practice. Still, I know we need to take care of ourselves. They're certainly not capable of taking care of us. MB, what's the status of the lumps? I went through a bout of breast cancer four summers ago. All is well so far.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
