I think it's fact that your H tried to let go of the old W to let go of the OW is still a good sign. If this really is an addiction, like they say, then it may take more time. But I recall from your posts that he was willing to tell her not to come over the holidays. That's good. These OWs are very crafty and they get their hooks into our spouses and they can't disentangle. In my case, they had no contact for about 10 days, then the OW texted her again right before she left for the holidays. I know, it makes no sense. My W is saying the OW makes her feel unsafe, but she still can't let her go. It must be like heroin. But again, the fact that your H was willing to try it again with you means he still not sure what he wants. Maybe he knows your Plan B. And they want what they can't have.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
