This BB just ate my post to you - so now I need to reconstruct it...
Just another boring weekend around your house huh? It is sad to see your H so mixed up, but it is nice to see him reaching out to you - even in his odd way of doing it. I can only imagine how hard this has been on you.
You handled it like a trooper though. Way to go on biting our tongue. I know how hard that is. I've often thought we should start a thread titled "Zingers never said out loud". WE could set up the situation and then list what we would have like to have said. Bet there would be some good ones.
Did you ever get in your round of golf? I hope so as it is time for you. Not time for Cathy the wife, mom, sister, employee, etc. but time for you! Enjoy that time as often as you can. One good thing for me in all of this is that I am carving out time for me. I think you do a great job of that.
Hope your day was a good one!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
Oh I don't know I'm having a mini-meltdown tonight. H said he was going to look at a boat after work and it was faster to go straight from work. Well I think he needs to drive right by OW's so I'm thinking he stopped there for awhile as he's not home yet. And it's not faster to go right from work either, I know that duhhh I'm so dumb sometimes, but I can't say anything to H either. I'm actually starting to cry and feel sorry for myself and wonder why me, why me.
OMG-I cracked I finally succombed and called the OW's house and left a message saying "H I know you're there, call me back or I'm on my way over there" and hung up. I called the guy who's boat H was supposed to be looking at and the guy said nobody's looked at and that's when I called the OW!
One minute later, H pulls into the garage. I quizzed him, he admitted to not looking at that boat but driving around to various other places. I said "Oh oh you're not going to believe what I did....lol...omg....I flipped out, I broke, the pressure overcame me and I reacted!! H kind of smiled and said what did you do. I haven't told him yet, he's playing with our S right now.
Help me, help me...I can't believe I'm laughing about it. The OW's going to think I flipped too..omg..omg...I wonder if she's hoping my H gets home soon!
Hugs to you big time. What's done is done. Forget about it. There are a lot worse things to happen in our lives.So you called the Other Bi5ch, I mean OW - in the scheme of things it doesn't mean anything. If it does to your H, just sluff (sp?) it off cause you know it doesn't mean anything to you.
You have been so incredibly patient these past weeks - you are a standard that so many of us wish we could be. Just remember, we can't be even be 80% all the time.
Cathy, hit one golf ball for me and pretend it's my H. You'll know that you did it right if you slice it. He would'nt know a fade if it hit him in the a$$. With any luck at all maybe he'll fall off that cruise ship he and OW are on. Maybe she'll jump in to save him.
Take care,
Mary
"God, help me keep my head up, my heart open, and know I'll always be guided along the path."
