Concept - you are telling us a lot about W and how she feels and her complaints.
If there is no OM then things are slightly less complicated. She is a WAW like mine.
What 180s are you doing. What GAL activities? What complaints have you addressed?
Ps don't negate her feelings even when she rewrites history. Validate and Listen. Read the validation thread.
If you are 'guilty' of controlling her, then learn not to. Let her go out detach from her emotionally. This in itself is a 180.
Also you don't have to lose your feelings for her. Death from het and let her go and try to live her from a distance. Your actions will speak louder than all the words you can muster.
Read the 37 rules every evening and morning and try to abide by them.
Lastly don't believe what she is saying. Her resentment has built up over many years and the spew could continue for many months but your Consistent 180s and changes will be noticed by her.
Focus on yourself and the kids.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
