Again, I declined her yesterday, she got mad after this since she is not used to me not being in the mood.
I politely explained that it was her decision to ask for divorce and that I don't feel it is the right thing to do. She then asked if she can file papers for divorce and will I tell to the court that we have tried everything since it will be faster. My reply was that I dont want to lie. Then she started with threats: 'do you want to make your life a living hell, so you want a divorce'.
After that I said I will think about it.
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room