Again, I declined her yesterday, she got mad after this since she is not used to me not being in the mood.

I politely explained that it was her decision to ask for divorce and that I don't feel it is the right thing to do.
She then asked if she can file papers for divorce and will I tell to the court that we have tried everything since it will be faster.
My reply was that I dont want to lie.
Then she started with threats: 'do you want to make your life a living hell, so you want a divorce'.

After that I said I will think about it.


Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room