I agree you shouldn't have high expectations or attach to a certain outcome. But don't go to the other extreme and cling to a negative narrative either. H is reaching out in a big way. To what purpose, who knows, maybe he doesn't either and is trying to see how it goes. Show him a woman only a fool would leave. You're not auditioning for your marriage...you are married, and trying to be a good wife as long as this remains the case. Good job Julie.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15