Ok. I'll say it. That was brilliant and I'm not above that type of move. I can see the regret part as OM's wife must have been a mess to begin with. If I were her, I would have told you to do it. What would you have done if she said yes? I do not recall seeing that move anywhere on this site. It probably should be added as the 38th rule. All is fair in love and war and we are in both of them. I like the way you think.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long