Just checking in. How are you doing? What's your concern about the tenants (I can assume what they may be, but want to push you to name them.) There is a certain level of trust that we have to have wrt how they parent our kids, right? What *would* make you feel more comfortable? A background check? Getting to meet them? This is an honest question, because I wonder if a way to resolve it is to name your concerns AND a solution that could feel reasonable to him?
(This is a good thinking exercise for me, too. I just got off the phone with stbx for our first official "scheduling phone call". Ugh. The thought of having to have those conversations with him for 15 more years is not pleasant. And that was just a logistical conversation! Not even about anything of substance regarding raising our kid!! So, I'm trying to use your situation as a way to think through my own-- sometimes it's easier to think about someone else's life in a more objective way, you know?)
