Hi Cali - I just want to chime in that it must be very difficult to return to the MLC incubator after having a taste of normalcy. Talk about parallel universes!
Just want you to know that I am thinking of you and your family.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced