I never told anyone I did this. I was scared that I was going to lose my wife to the POS OM. I want you to know that I would not do it again, I am not that man anymore. What I did was wrong and cruel. I am sorry that I did it. How's that for an intro?
The OM's wife called my wife and told her to back off. Wife and I discuss the EA/PA. I want more information so I call OM's wife. I get info from her and give her info. We talk a few times. My wife wants to stay friends with OM. I don't like it. I decide OM has to drop my wife to get her to wake up.
I call OM's wife and lie to her to have her pressure OM. I tell the wife that I have a good friend that is a state trooper. I can get my friend to pull him over, search his car, plant and find an 8 ball of coke in the car. The trooper would pull him over in a school zone. In my state that mandatory 10 year sentence. I then ask her if she wants me to do it. I said she could divorce him while he was in prison and take everything. I said I would not do it unless she wanted me to do it. I said I would never talk about it again and if she brought it up ever I would deny saying it. She started crying saying that her boys needed their father. I said okay but if she changed her mind to give me a call and simply say I like your idea.
She never called me again. The next evening the OM calls the house, he talks to my wife and then ask's to talk to me. He said he was sorry, won't happen again and they will not be communicating anymore.
I am not a man that would do that now. I manipulated this poor woman who's already stressed out, to scare the $hit out of her husband. I regret putting this emotional burden on this struggling wife. As far as the POS OM goes, F him in his F'ing POS a$$. I hope every time he see's a state trooper in his rear view mirror he $hits in his pants.
To clarify, I truly regret putting his wife through this experience, him no regrets at all. They never communicated again. After he dropped her, she grew to dislike him. I did what I had to break the link between them and save my family. Reasoning wasn't going to break the link. It had to be a lower level on Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Safety is below love and belonging. So he through my wife under the bus.
