You know, I was your XH at one place in time. I wanted to know things immediately, and was pretty aggressive when my timeline wasn't managed. This whole process changed that for me. (Every so often I have a relapse...)
Every once in awhile I get to walk in your shoes. And while it makes me grin evilly to myself, I remind Mr. Wonderful, "You used to get really angry with me when I insisted on getting answers immediately, so I'm asking for a little time to figure out if it works for me." Every single time, he's apologized and backed down.
BTW, your XH DOES have it good. You're as good an XW as he could have hoped to have. He's lucky to be divorced from you.
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
