I have asked H to turn up between a certain time and I have added that it would be best with his work commitment and me trying to have kids in bed by a certain time.
Now H is shortening his time with kids! He is the one losing out, not me! Sad really. You have been through this before Inpain and I know you can do it again.
Keep faith :-)
Thanks Rouky, this seems like a good idea to set up for us too. Can't believe your H is shortening his time with your kids! But, as you say, he is the one losing out and I'm sure, at some point in the future, he will regret it big time. I think having done this before is actually making it harder for me. I am expecting it to be as easy as last time, I also have the time limit of how long it took last time in my head constantly, and I also feel despondent because I think he came back once and now has done it again, so what is the point DBing this time if he could come back and then leave me again at some other point in the future.
