Rain...please trust that we remember and nobody thinks less of you if you slip up and don't do everything perfectly. We are humans with feelings and emotions. I am 19 months into my saga and I certainly still make my fair share of mistakes. It is much easier to see things and offer advice in someone else's situation when you are not overwhelmed with emotions like you are in your own. We are all in this together...
Originally Posted By: Rain75
Pink, yes. This is very hard for all of us. The pain is still very raw. And yes, some of the things 25 Years says are like....ouch! But I know she does it to help me and others not make the same mistakes just like you and AnnaB have said to me as well.
I am thankful you all take the time to give me your hard won advice. I just hope you remember how hard it is at the beginning. I really do want to gather up everyones gems of knowledge and be super strong and move on and leave him to his own mess.
I hear you guys all say the same thing. Let him go. Work on you. It's the best chance you have. And then I mess up. Not so good.
I want to be a better me. A version of me that would not take this from any man and would walk away and not cling.
I hope you and the boys were okay during the snow storm.
