At what point is DBing no longer helpful? I feel like I need permission to "give up" on my marriage. It feels very wrong to simply move on. I know there is nothing I can do to make my H come back but I still put everything through the DB filter. And I feel like that keeps me on the edge of hope and keeps me from fully coming to terms with what is happening.
If anyone has any insights about how to move fully forward to accept and process the divorce, please chime in.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming