Have been reading from the beginning of trumpets posts and found this gem from Zeus
Remember- How can you expect her to have the strength to cut emotional ties with OM if you don't have the strength to cut emotional ties with WW?
It resonates with me. At this point I am not over thinking about OM. Definitely not obsessing about it like I was. The focus is shifting to me.
W always had a saying she reinforced with the kids. Your choices always have consequences. It's up to you to decide whether your choice has positive or negative consequence. Right now she has to live by that.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
