Need support navigating the change in my marriage

[Mona52]

I also wonder if living together makes things worse. I see people on here struggle with DB'ing every day, eggshells always at home. I DB with my H only when I feel like it. I need to relax and think of myself when I am at home.

It is fantastic that you are not letting her bully or control. It is easy to think if they get mad they will be pushed farther away. But the truth is that it is hard to be attractive to someone who does not ever stand up for themselves.