FO2, thank you. With the 2year old analogy, it's always about me and it's not just letting it out. What do I say when he spews and expects me to answer/expects me to apologize for everything, and when I remove myself physically, he continues. It all comes back to his narrative that I'm controlling things, which appears valid.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
