Kyrie, no, you don't say you are dropping the rope. You just drop it. Its not like you are leaving him, you are still his w, but you are managing your own emotions. Don't get into it with him, just do it. Especially with your H, he will want to argue with you about it. Just do it.
If only it were that simple. Again, he *wants* to hash all this out. There's no way to avoid it.
Kyrie, it doesn't matter what he wants. If you do not want to be on the receiving end of the spew, then get away from him. If you can't do this emotionally, then maybe you need to do it physically. Your first responsibility is for your own emotional health. You cannot be of help to anyone if you can not take care of yourself emotionally.
