Need support navigating the change in my marriage

[G8r]

Thanks Mona52. I'm trying to give a taste of what things will be lime by doing things on my time frame if I feel inclined to do those things, such as getting the groceries from the car last night. She wanted in done immediately, I didn't mind helping but I told her I would do it after I had dinner. She huff, puffed and got them herself all the while telling me I needed to help around the house until I move out. My help is something she will definitely miss if I move out but that's the problem. I don't want to move out and she feels entitled to the house.

I'm confused because I hear a lot of people on the forum say to stay in the house but it is so difficult to get her to miss me by staying. Sometimes I wonder if I couldn't have gotten back on track to R if I had just went ahead and moved out 2 months ago...