Kyrie, no, you don't say you are dropping the rope. You just drop it. Its not like you are leaving him, you are still his w, but you are managing your own emotions. Don't get into it with him, just do it. Especially with your H, he will want to argue with you about it. Just do it.
If only it were that simple. Again, he *wants* to hash all this out. There's no way to avoid it.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
