Two Wolves

[Irish M]

Hi Cali
I've read your whole sitch, started it even before I registered. I've drawn strength from your posts. I agree your W is not done. I can't imagine how difficult it is for you since your sitch is different than mine ( my w is gone , hasn't bothered with the D's in nearly 6mths) . Yours is in your face every day .

I'm so glad I don't see her MLC life. Maybe it's time you move out and let her bake some more. Do what's healthy for you and your S. Your W is texting an OM2 and deleting it. Even if there is nothing she should be open to you and hide nothing. She's not working on the M. I don't want to be too direct here but you know that this can't happen this way. She needs to want it.

She's going to lose a great guy. Maybe she needs this reality to help her bake a little more.

Do what's best for you my friend .

Irish