PP,

I love stopping by this thread. I know when I come here that I will not find a hot mess in crazytown, but inspiration on how to keep calm and move forward. Life has so many possibilities, even if they are around the globe! I know people on here who have placed themselves in a prison, shackled by raising children or pleasing WAS's and I pray constantly that they come here and see that ANYTHING is possible. But they CANT have anything unless they first dream it and take a baby step towards it.

I know for a fact that when you started your journey, you never EXPECTED you would succeed in the way you did. You took small steps in the right direction and gained super momentum that probably shocked even you.

I bet there were times when you were terrified because good things were actually happening. It had to be some trick of the universe and at any second someone would jump out and say "just kidding, you get nothing!"

But you kept taking steps toward what you believed was a good life for you.

Did everything work as planned? No, but it is still a work in progress. Are your changes fake and only to win W back? Maybe at first, yes, but no one can look at your life and say you live it only for her. You live your life for you and no matter what, you will be happy.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!