Thanks for reading that wall of text! I agree and I'm trying my best to go "aggressive".
Last night she came to me and asked me to read a book "Conscious Uncoupling" and the tole me that the 3 days the kids and I were out of town was awesome and she wants to move out now. She confirmed that the OM is "dissolving his marriage" and MIGHT move here. I just said ok to everything and suggested she move out soon.
She then started on the "We will always be friends and family, even after a divorce" I was very clear again, that is not the true. We will never be friends again if this happens.
I remembered my L&L's Look and Listen, and validated what she said.
