Zues, when you say 3 months without talking, do you mean just talking about children or dinner or mundane stuff, or not talking *at all*? I probably wouldn't manage 3 hours...

Yes, it's back to LLs, isn't it... Which reminds me I need to do better with the verbal part again. That is the hardest for me because I have lived the majority of my life in a culture that doesn't express much emotion verbally.

I'm having a hard time with what 'counts' and what doesn't. I thought thanking H for things he does for me and around the house would be WoA, but the counselor said no. It feels like it's a very narrow area I have to hit. What kinds of WoA would you want to hear?

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17