Suddenly so nervous. I have a bad feeling about this.
Stop thinking that you are taking his money. He had a child. He is responsible for the child. You are a mamma bear protecting your baby bear, and God help anything that threatens your baby bear. H is threatening. Imagine those apartments you looked at. Imagine your baby there because you were nervous and did not want to take his money.
DONT listen to him. He CANT see his baby in a dirty, rundown, unsafe apartment. He can only see you landing a new guy who pays for EVERYTHING. Like that ever REALLY happens in real life...
The only thing you should be focused on right now is getting what you can to raise his child in the best way possible. If that means he has to cough up money, well he will have to cough up money. If it really bothers you, then work towards a goal where you are also making money. For now, get what you need. Then continue to take small baby steps toward the life you wish you had right now.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
