Since we still live in the same household, and she still sleeps in bed yesterday night she said she was horny and needed me. I politely declined the offer, said I was tired, and then she snuggled.

I am aware that this is more than she should get, but on the other side might be that she realized some things.

today I found this response and it makes perfect sense:
Quote:
It is very common for a WW to test the H through sex. She feels she is still in control when he caves to her sexually.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2545725#Post2545725


So, friends with benefits, or BFFx is out of question now, that is something that I was looking for as last resort. My strategy is changing daily, as I am waiting for the book to arrive.


Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room