Need Help (new thread)

[AU Bob]

I think there may be some wires crossed here. I have only contacted her once in three months. That was to do with an issue with my grand daughter.
She attended christmas at D's house with the rest of the family i just said hello as i walked past her. I kept away from her for the rest of the gathering.
I dont contact her unless I absolutely have to.
She has been the one contacting me. I did not ask her to come into my house she asked my daughter, i stayed jn my room reading when she came inside, she came into my room and asked me to come out into the kitchen and have a coffee. If i said no would that have been the right thing to do?
I have removed myself from her life as much as I can, but when you have children it's just not that easy.
I'm moving on with my life and im at peace knowing she is not in it, and as such can not hurt me anymore!