Ok, I've gone through the links and ordered DR.

Just found out my new boss doesn't need me this week which [censored] (surveying and mapping). Like I mentioned earlier, I can't go full time until April and I was hoping that I could at least work part-time and start training more. The situation is hard to explain but it's another wall I need to overcome. I was really looking forward to this new career path, it's a good fit for me and job options in this resort area are scarce unless I flip pizzas or wait tables. I know my wife won't respect me until I'm making decent money and therefore I know things won't get better between us until then. That EA she had, she was drawn to him because he owns his own business and owns a lot of land. She confessed to me a couple of months ago that she feels like she needs a type A guy.

I'll also start trying to reach out and talk to more people. How much should I say about my marital situation?


M41 W39
D3
Open Marriage Request by W 6/15
BD 9/15
1st EA 10/15
2nd EA discovered: 1/16
I moved out: 1/16
2nd EA blew apart 2/16
PA 4/16
I've had enough, filing for D