My new thread 1

[Tyler12]

I mentioned this earlier but i unfriended W in fb today. Recently I started sharing pictures of me and my children and things in up to while before I just kind of stalked and never write anything.
I enjoy sharing my happiness with friends and family. At the same time I had huge anxiety about opening it up. I never new if I was going to see a post from her about moving on or going to be a great year. I dreaded it.
Then yesterday the 2 of us took S3 skiing for the first time and it was a blast. He loved it and I took a bunch of pics. A couple had her in it so when I went to post them I thought. Sure I'll tag her in them. As I did her name popped up and she had changed it to her maiden name and her relationship status was gone. I was expecting the latter but not the maiden name. It shook me out of the happiness I had had.
Then this morning I thought. Why do i have to be afraid to go on fb because of her? Fb is for friends right? So that was that. Part of it was spiteful I see but it's something I needed to do to move on and make me happy. I also know that she hase filtered as to what I can see on her page so it's not a huge loss...
Then tonight she texts me asking if I deleted her. So instead of texting back I went to her and said I would like to talk about it.
Yes I unfriended you. There has been no sharing things between us. No tagging each other. You block me from posts. And to be honest. We aren't friends. Not anymore. I had a job and that was to be your husband and best friend. I was fired from that job. If my work fired me and said you can stay on in a lesser role for less reward. I wouldn't jump at the chance to stay there.
It's what I need to do for me. I hope you understand it's not out of anger and I'm not trying to shut you out of my life.
She said ya I do and I said good night and went to bed.

I don't know if I opened up to much for her or said too much. I'm sure she doesn't really care that I did it. And conversely I have a little worry in my heart, no where near what it would have been a week ago. It feels freeing tho