Thank you so much. (Funny because I wish I was as imaginative, pretty, whimsical and intellectual as you!)
Although a bit hard to agree with the growing up part, when I am sitting here creating super hero/divorce buster analogies in my mind I think of posters like yourself, zues, Fo and some others as the super heroes. The good guys. Thinking and doing good unto others. Following the divorce busting rules the way they are meant to be followed. Humble and Willing to make sacrifices and endure humility for the long term good. Sticking through their committments at all costs.
I don't think I would necessarily be a super villain but certainly not a super hero. Maybe an anti heroine. You see, I would secretly be happy to see some money from banks being stolen and perhaps distributed to the poor. Would I take some for myself? Most likely I would. I almost certainly would seek revenge upon those i deemed deserved it. I would agree with and befriend a lot of the supervillains , but would never actively want to hurt any innocents. I would hang out with the superheroes with the hope that I too could achieve a sense of peace and make the right choices.
Thank goodness these forums are anonymous.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
I think of posters like yourself, zues, Fo and some others as the super heroes. The good guys. Thinking and doing good unto others. Following the divorce busting rules the way they are meant to be followed. Humble and Willing to make sacrifices and endure humility for the long term good. Sticking through their committments at all costs. 
