A new way of thinking...

[Painter]

Ancaire, H has told me over and over that I'm a good person with a good heart and that he loves me (but not in love) - it doesn't mean they want to stay M to us.

I think M gets too hard so they want to have the simple, but intoxicating first attraction again, a R that doesn't involve mundane problems and obligations.

I think that's why breezy mysteriousness and GAL and PMA works - remind them that you are the person they were first attracted to.