Gmum - I raised 5 children for my career building husband. I handled everything home and child related so that he could devote himself to his career.
My H cries "not fair" about the duration of spousal support. On one hand, I feel a bit of sympathy. On the other, I was building MY future along with his. Now that he's changed his mind, my sacrifice means nothing?
I disagree. I disagree with your H, too. He's borrowing trouble. You're going to have your hands full raising daughter - when will you have time to be meeting and/or involved with "someone else"?
Good luck tomorrow. Remember, you're there to observe, really. Agree to nothing. We'll be waiting to hear how it goes...