Gmum - I raised 5 children for my career building husband. I handled everything home and child related so that he could devote himself to his career.

My H cries "not fair" about the duration of spousal support. On one hand, I feel a bit of sympathy. On the other, I was building MY future along with his. Now that he's changed his mind, my sacrifice means nothing?

I disagree. I disagree with your H, too. He's borrowing trouble. You're going to have your hands full raising daughter - when will you have time to be meeting and/or involved with "someone else"?

Good luck tomorrow. Remember, you're there to observe, really. Agree to nothing. We'll be waiting to hear how it goes...


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti