Don't know what to do anymore...

[Zues126]

XW and I periodically went three months without speaking so I would say yes, we went a day without touch.

Should a marriage be that way? Hell no!

I'm starting to think the love languages are like food groups. You should really show affection in the way your spouse feels it every day. For me it's Physical touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality time...so to me those three should be daily or near daily in some form...with acts of service and gifts being slightly less regular.

But if my spouse said that gifts were her love language, well, you'd better believe I'd make it rain!