He can't file for bankruptcy and I don't think he would. He's been working really hard to get his credit score up.
Part of me wants to leave. I need family around. I could have an easier life. And I really want to get as far away as possible from him.
That's a good point re the state agency. But I think it would be very easy for him to hide money, if he wanted to. He wants me to only have 1-3 years of spousal even though I'm entitled to 6. He says it's not fair that he should pay for me if I meet someone else in a few years but we don't get married.
Can't sleep. Typical before an important day. And I'm stressing about moving. Lot of logistics and I still don't even know if I got the apartment.