You're right, and especially since generalizations don't work. For all I know people that don't have a number of relationships may just be really guarded and not good marriage material. I also wonder if it gives us problems with unrealistic expectations. I don't have answers. I just know where I'm at today, which is by myself and unable to picture anything else for the time being. But if there's one thing I've gotten better at it's just enjoying today.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15